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生活需要宽容
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为了体验恒久不变的爱情，你首先应该弄懂你的生活中缺失什么，然后添补这一空白。人们因为把爱人看做一切而走入爱情，又因为想要爱人为自己做一切而走出爱情。当爱侣不能满足他们所有要求时，他们开始不满意。如果梦想一份恒久的爱情，最好创造自己的生活，冠之以兴趣，爱好和有益的激情。当你享受自己完美有趣的生活时，才能全身心地去爱。创造一个自己的世界。在自己的待做清单中加上宽容。尽可能地宽容总是有益健康的，失望和悲伤只是生活的一部分。
一些人发现宽恕他们的爱侣很难，尤其是发现被骗时。找一个婚姻关系顾问寻求职业帮助。这是寻求恒久爱情中关键的一步。多数被隐藏的恨意是导致婚姻失败，关系破裂的原因。总有一个时候，这种恨意会重新出现，且被大肆渲染。要想让有爱的生活扬帆起航，就必须学会宽容，心无杂念地前进。接受到来的变化而不是与事实对抗。人生中变化是不可避免的。在生活的某个时候，你会被爱，被抛弃，结婚，生子，生病，死亡。你应该承认生活中发生的一切，并坚强地走下去。无论你的生活可能多么稳定，懂得顷刻之间情况会发生变化的道理总有好处。
总是要接受预料不到的局面。总能从你所拥有的事物中找到乐趣，并为此心存感激。尽管未知的不确定性让我们心存恐惧，当不可避免的事情发生时，你应回顾过去的好时光，期望当生活丰富多彩时，能学会感恩。要享受爱情生活，应该时时充满感激，学会感激所经历的小小挫折，因为未知的世界可能更糟，说不定将来真会更糟。体验恒久爱情的感受，为相爱创造时间。许多不幸福的人一直推迟在一起的时间。人们总是陷入许多严苛的日常活动中，而忘记留点时间为今天而活。
这发生在你身上也发生在我身上。总有洗不完的衣服，做不完的家务，干不完的差使。深夜我们筋疲力尽地入睡，醒来后，第二天还是一样。享受美满生活，停下来，给自己点时间，给彼此点时间。今天可能是你生活中惟一的礼物，度过今天就像没有明天一样。生活中宝贵的时刻是在繁重的工作压力下创造出来的。每天创造一些这样短暂的片刻来享受恒久的爱情。
In order toexperience everlasting love in life, you ought to first figure out what ismissing in your life and then fill in the gaps. People fall in and out of lovebecause they expect their lovers to be everything to them and do everything forthem. They then become dissatisfied when the partner fails to meet all theirrequirements. If you have a dream of achieving everlasting love you bettercreate your very own life crowned by hobbies, interests and beneficialpassions. This makes you a full lover when you enjoy a complete, interestinglife on your own. Create a world of your own. On your to-do-list addforgiveness. It is always healthy to forgive while you can, disappointments andsadness is a part of life. Some people find ithard to forgive their partners especially if they happened to catch themcheating on them. Seek professional help from a marriage and relationshipcounselor. This is an important move towards search for everlasting love. Mostburied resentments are the cause to failed marriages and broken relationships.At one time they resurface and blow the present things out of proportion. Tofind a smooth sail in your love life you have to learn to forgive and move onwith a clean slate. Accept changes when they arrive instead of fighting thereality. In life change is inevitable. At one time you will be loved, dumped,married, you will have children, become sick and die. You should acknowledgethe happenings in life and move through them strongly. No matter how settledyou might be it is good to know that things can change in an instant. Always accept theunexpected. Always find Happiness in what you have and be grateful to own whatyou have. It is a great secret to everlasting love. Despite the greatest fearand uncertainties of the unknown, when the inevitable things happen you willlook back on the good old times and wish that you had been more grateful whenthings were more colorful. To enjoy your love life you should give thanks everymoment and learn to appreciate the small problems we experience because unknownto us they can get worse and some time they probably will. To experience how itfeels to have everlasting love, create time for each other as lovers. Manypeople who are unhappy keep on postponing time to be together. People getcaught up in the many and demanding daily activities and forget to get time tolive for today. It happens to meand you. There will always be more laundry, more house chores and more errands to be carried out. It isa routine where we retire to bed when we are very exhausted late at night onlyto awake and follow the same routine again the next day. To live life to thefullest stop at some point and take time for yourself and for each other too.Today might be the only gift you have in life so live like there is notomorrow. The precious moments wereckon in life are achieved by creating time for themagainst the much pressure of work. Create such short and fleeting momentseveryday to enjoy everlasting love.
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