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找到你的激情和理想 荷叶/译 把你内心的感受想象成一个内在的孩子。如果你忽略了自己的感受,就等于忽略了这个孩子,他就会有被遗弃的感觉。我们拒绝感受自己的痛苦并为此负责,会导致焦虑、沮丧和内心空虚。 学会管理孤独之苦对发现自己的激情和理想非常重要。没有对自己爱与智慧的精神源泉的深层联系,就没有办法管理自己的孤独感。仅靠我们的大脑无法管理孤独感。 孤独感是我们体内的孩子,我们的感觉本身为我们设计了有意义的蓝图,即我们的激情和理想。我们每个来到这个星球上的人,都有一个内在的理想要表达,当我们无法表达这个理想时,就会感觉空虚和沮丧。但如果我们封闭自己的情感,就不会发现这个理想。 当你决定不再封闭自己,敞开心扉,从孤独之中汲取营养时,你会发现生活深层的意义。只有当你在爱与智慧这二位精神导师的指导下,不再感到孤独时,你才会敞开胸怀。向神圣的爱情敞开心扉,敞开自己的情感,你会得到充实、快乐、激情和理想,这一切正是你的心灵之渴望。 附:原文 Imagine that your feelings are a child within. If you ignore this child -by ignoring your feelings - this child feels abandoned. Our refusal to feel andtake responsibility for our own pain is an inner abandonment and results inanxiety, depression, or inner emptiness. Learning to manage the pain of loneliness is essential to discovering your passion and purpose. There is no way of managing loneliness without a deep andpersonal connection to a spiritual source of love and wisdom. We cannot manage loneliness from our mind alone. It is our child within: our feeling self that has the blueprint for what has meaning for us, for our passion and purpose. Each of us comes to this planet with a deep purpose to express, and when we don't express this purpose,we end up feeling empty and depressed. Yet we cannot discover this purpose when we keep a lid on our feelings. You will find deep meaning in your life when you decide to open to and learn from your feelings of loneliness rather than continue to shut them down.And you will open to these feelings only when you do not feel alone inside dueto experiencing the love and wisdom of your spiritual Guidance. Opening to divine Love and opening to your feelings will bring you the fullness, joy,passion and purpose that are the yearnings of your soul. |