恋爱 荷叶/译 人生最high的境界就是恋爱。而恋爱却抓不住,锁不牢,也创造不出。恋爱是一种体验。只有当你经历过,才能知道里面的复杂和奥妙。恋爱的人自我感觉最好。恋爱时,你的大脑退居幕后,你的心灵却加班加点地工作。 恋爱不仅仅是个小小的词汇,它更是一种全新的感觉,这种感觉把你的全部身心带到一个完全不同的世界。爱创造不来,也摧毁不掉。它由一个人传递给另一个人。宇宙中爱的总量在不断增加,但爱永不守恒。 和许多正常人一样,从儿时开始,我经历过多次恋爱。我们使用恋爱这个词汇的频率是什么?那就是如果我们不能使这种痴迷有丝毫进展的话,我们会把自己所有的情感和思想倾注其中。这不仅仅是因为我们害怕遭到拒绝,而且因为我们中多数人没有向前迈出那一步。当这种自我意识消失时,大概有四分之一的人就已经处于热恋阶段了。 附:原文 The greatest high in life is when you fall in love. Love, well you cannot snatch it, lock it or create it. It should come from within you. Being in love is an experience and only if you go through it you will know the intricacies of it. You feel your best when you are in love. Love is a process where your brain has taken a backseat and your heart is working overtime. Love is not just a four-letter word, but it's a totally different feeling, which takes your entire body, soul and mind to altogether a different world. Love can neither be created nor destroyed. It passes from one person to another. The total amount of love in the universe always increases and never remains constant. I like any normal human being have had a lot of crushes from my childhood. How often do we use the word crush? All the feelings and thoughts are dumped into it, if we make no further progress with our infatuation. This happens not only for the fear of rejections, but also because many of us fail to approach. If this ego had disappeared, probably a quarter of us would have been in a love relationship with our crush. |