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爱的世界
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爱的世界很大，大到可以容纳成百上千次失望；爱的世界很小，小到内有三人便觉拥挤。
对于世界来说，你只是一个人；但对一个人来说，你却是整个世界。
不要把你的时间浪费在一个不愿意把他/她的时间花费在你身上的人身上。
不要太努力，最好的事物往往会不期而至。
也许上帝会在我们遇到梦中情人以前先让我们遇到另外几个人，以便当最终与心上人相遇时，会心存感激。
爱而复失要好过从没爱过。
爱意淡淡，但要弥久。
生活在没有你的世界里会痛苦于任何惩罚。
你是否知道没有人可以替代你在我心中的位置？
如果爱是一座山，那男人爬得越高，眼里的女人会越多；而女人爬得越高，眼里的男人会越少。
爱让男人崛起或沉沦。
当你不再拥有一样东西时,唯一能做的事就是不要忘记它。
宽恕不是忘记，也不是赦免和移交，而是放手；孤独不是因为无友，而是因为心中无人。
最痛彻的思念是近在咫尺，却心知不为自己所有。
让心上人围绕在自己身边不是爱，爱是放手让心爱的人自由地离开。
人一生中，有两件憾事。一是爱而不得，二是所爱的人不幸福。
不要因结束而落泪，而要因爱过而微笑。
不要期待完人。不是因为你找不到，而是因为根本就没有。
一段无果的爱需要的不是悲伤而是需要时间来忘记。
一颗伤痕累累的心需要的不是同情而是理解。
爱你不是因为你本身，而是因为和你在一起的感觉。
没有一个人值得你流泪，因为值得你流泪的那个人不会让你哭泣。
人们常说你找到什么样的人就会过什么样的生活。因此，不同的选择会有不同的结局。
有时你需要回顾，否则你永远也不会知道在一路寻找中失去了什么。
多数人都在渴望水晶似的爱情，纯洁无暇。然而事实是多数人拥有的是玻璃似的爱情。
你爱的人也爱你，这是奇迹。上帝和这叫相爱。
被你所爱的人去爱是一种什么感觉？
如果你能立刻回答上来，你就懂得了幸福的含义。
希望和信任是蜥蜴的尾巴，可断后重生。
你是否以为最酸的感觉是忌妒？
不，最酸的感觉是你连忌妒的权力都没有。那才是最酸的。
输在所爱的事物上要好过赢在所憎的事物上。
我知道爱不能比较，但仍习惯于抱怨他的匮乏。
永不皱眉，即使当你伤心时，因为你不知谁会爱上你的笑容。
爱是貌似不可能的相遇。
比如，我是云中鸟，你是林中豹，我们恰恰就相遇又相爱了。
当你被抛弃时，损失的是对方，因为他/她失去了真心爱他/她的人，而你只失去了一个并不爱你的人。
一个人不像你想要的那样去爱你，并不意味着他/她没有倾其所能去爱你。
真爱使你从一个人身上看到整个世界，错爱使你因一个人而抛弃整个世界。
既然相爱，为何还扣问那么多？
成熟者不问过去，智慧者不问现在，开明者不问未来。
幸福的关键不是去找一个完人，而是找一个人并和他/她建立完美的关系。
如果你离开我，请不要安慰我，因为缝缝补补的每一针都会带来刺痛。
附：原文
The love world is big, which can hold hundreds of disappointments;
the love world is small which is crowded even with three people inside.
To the world you may be one person, but to one person you may be the world.
Don’t waste your time on a man/woman, who isn’t willing to waste their time on you.
Don’t try so hard, the best things come when you least expect them to.
Maybe God wants us to meet a few wrong people before meeting the right one,
so that when we finally meet the person, we will know how to be grateful.
It is better to have love and lost than never to have loved at all.
Love me little, love me long.
To live in a world without you is more painful than any punishment.
Do you know that no one can replace you in my heart?
If love is a mountain, then if men go up,
more women they will see while women will see fewer men.
Love makes man grow up or sink down.
The only thing you can do when you no longer have something is not to forget.
To forgive is not to forget, nor remit, but let it go;
to be lonely is not because you have no friends, but no one is living in your heart.
The worst way to miss someone is to be sitting right beside them knowing you can’t have them.
To keep someone around you is not love; love is to let the one you love go freely.
During the whole life, you will regret for two things:
one is that you don’t get the one you love and the other is the one you love is not happy.
Don’t cry because it is over, smile because it happened.
Never expect the perfect man,
it’s not because that you cannot find, but just because there is no perfect man.
An unacceptable love needs no sorrow but sometime for forgetting.
A badly-hurt heart needs no sympathy but understanding.
I love you not because of who you are, but because of who I am when I am with you.
No man or woman is worth your tears, and the one who is, won’t make you cry.
It’s often said that you will have the same life as the person you find.
Therefore, different choices make different endings.
Sometimes you need to look back,
otherwise you will never know what you have lost in the way of forever searching.
Most of people are looking forward the crystal-like love—pure without any defect.
However the truth is most people are having the glass-like love.
The one you love also loves you. This is a miracle.
And the god names this as falling in love with each other.
How it feels when you are loved by the one you love? How could it be like?
If you want to answer it immediately, you shall know how happy you are.
Hope and trust is the tail of a lizard, which can reproduce even after being cut off.
Do you think that the sourest feeling is to be jealous?
No, the sourest thing is that you have no rights to be jealous.
That’s the sourest thing.
To lose in something you love is better than to win in something you hate.
I know that love shall not be compared, but I still used to complaining what he is lack of.
Never frown, even when you are sad,
because you never know who is falling in love with your smile.
Love is an impossible meeting.
For example, I am a bird flying in sky,
you are a leopard in forest. We just fall in love accidentally.
When someone abandons you, it is him that gets loss
because he lost someone who truly loves him
but you just lost one who doesn’t love you.
Just because someone doesn’t love you the way you want them to,
doesn’t mean they don’t love you with all they have.
Good love makes you see the whole world from one person
while bad love makes you abandon the whole world for one person.
Why to ask so much when you are in love?
The mature never ask the past,
the wise never ask the present
and the open-minded never ask the future.
The key for happiness is not to find a perfect person,
but find someone and build a perfect relationship with him.
If you leave me, please don’t comfort me
because each sewing has to meet stinging pain.
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