【赫临译笔】爱不是占有

ヮ成熟、羙°

爱不是占有

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       爱不是占有。正如你喜欢月亮，却不能摘下来据为己有。但月光会照进你的房间。同样，你可以用不同的方式来拥有你的爱人。把你的所爱永远珍藏在记忆中。

       你说不出为什么会真正爱上一个人。你只知道在任何时候，无论心情是好还是坏，你都想要这个人在你身边。真爱是二人能够共度苦难，却对彼此一无所求。毕竟，爱需要给予，而不仅仅是接受。

       如果你真的爱上一个人，你需要爱这个人的全部，爱他的好，爱他的坏，爱他的优点，爱他的缺点。千万别指望他会因为你爱他而有所改变，成为你想要的那个人。

　　　　

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Love is not possessive. As you like the moon but it's impossible to bring the moon down and keep it. But the moonlight will still shine into your room. In the same way, you can posses the person you love in a different manner. Let the one you love remains in your memory always.
You can't say why when you truly love someone.You only know at any moment, in good mood or bad, you just want this person by your side; True love is when two people are able to withstand the worst times,yet not demanding anything from each other. After all, love requires one togive, and not just receiving.
If you really love someone, you need to love whohe is--love his good, and his bad. Love his strengths and his weaknesses. Never wish that he'll change to become the person you want him to be because you love him.

丛中笑

如果你真的爱上一个人，你需要爱这个人的全部，爱他的好，爱他的坏，爱他的优点，爱他的缺点。

ヮ成熟、羙°

丛中笑 发表于 2014-2-4 17:35
如果你真的爱上一个人，你需要爱这个人的全部，爱他的好，爱他的坏，爱他的优点，爱他的缺点。 ...

真爱是盲目的。

丛中笑

ヮ成熟、羙° 发表于 2014-2-5 08:46
真爱是盲目的。

真爱也不完全盲目的，只是不是斤斤计较。

ヮ成熟、羙°

丛中笑 发表于 2014-2-5 19:17
真爱也不完全盲目的，只是不是斤斤计较。

老师说得对，爱是付出，不是计较。

丛中笑

ヮ成熟、羙° 发表于 2014-2-5 20:35
老师说得对，爱是付出，不是计较。