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人人有本难念的经
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坚韧不跋的人走向成功的秘诀是什么？他们为什么能够度过难关而其他人却被困难所压倒？他们为什么会赢而其他人却总输？他们为什么会一飞冲天而其他人却深陷泥沼？ 答案很简单。就是关于怎样理解困难。是的，所有人都会遇到困难，没有困难的生活只是幻像，是沙漠中的海市蜃楼。要接受这个事实。 每座山都有峰，每个谷都有底。生活有起也有伏，有峰巅也有谷底。没有人会永远高高在下，也没有人会永远臣于下僚。困难总会结束，随着时间而解决。 你可能控制不了时代，却可以左右自己如何应对。你可以对痛苦谩骂诅咒，也可以把痛苦谱写成诗,选择权在你手里。你可能无法选择痛苦何时来临，但你可以选择如何应对。 例如，如何积极应对金融挫折？是积极应对还是消极逃避？酗酒，吸毒或自杀？不行！如此消极的应对方式似乎能暂解燃眉之急，其实会引发更加棘手的麻烦。 积极解决问题需要勇气。生活中遇到了几乎无法控制的问题时，你若能够控制自己的反应，其实你就控制了这件事对你的影响。你对问题的反应起着决定性作用，是关键所在。这个问题会对你产生什么作用？使你软弱还是坚强，更好还是更苦？这完全取决于你。 最后分析得出：坚强的人能够度过困难时期是因为他们选择了积极面对困境。困难时光不会持久，但坚强的人却长长久久，他们能够坚持到底。历史告诉我们每个难题都有寿命。 没有难题是永久性的。阳光总在风雨后，冰雪总会消融，严冬总会变为暖春。你的风雨也会过去，你的冬雪也会消融，你的难题也会解决。 附：原文 What is the secret ingredient of tough people that enables them to succeed? Why do they survive the tough times when others are overcome by them? Why do they win when others lose? Why do they soar when others sink? The answer is very simple. It'sall in how they perceive their problems. Yes, every living person has problems.A problem-free life is an illusion-a mirage in the desert. Accept that fact. Every mountain has a peak. Every valley has its low point. Life has its ups and downs, its peaks and itsvalleys. No one is up all the time, nor are they down all the time. Problems do end. They are all resolved in time. You may not be able to control the times, but you can compose your response. You can turn your pain into profanity-or into poetry. The choice is up to you. You may not have chosen your tough time, but you can choose how you will react to it. For instance, what is the positive reaction to a terrible financial setback? In this situation would it be the positive reaction to copout and runaway? Escape through alcohol, drug, or suicide? No! Such negative reactions only produce greater problems by promising a temporary solution to the pressing problem. The positive solution to a problem may require courage to initiate it. When you control your reaction to the seemingly uncontrollable problem of life, then in fact you do control the problem's effect on you. Your reaction to the problem is the last word! That's the bottom line. What will you let this problem do to you? It can make you tender or tough. It can make you better or bitter. It all depends on you. In the final analysis, the tough people who survive the tough times do so because they've chosen to react positively to their predicament. Tough times never last, but tough people do.Tough people stick it out. History teaches us that every problem has a lifespan. No problem is permanent. Storms always give way to the sun. Winter always thaws into springtime. Your storm will pass. Your winter will thaw. Your problem will be solved. | 
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