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人一生的爱
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爱一个人而得不到回应是痛苦的,更痛苦的是爱一个人却没有勇气让他知道你的感觉。 生活中一件悲伤的事是,当你遇到对你很重要的人,结果却发现你们根本不可能,不得不放手。 最好的朋友是那种和你一起坐在门廊的秋千上,一言不发,然后走开,感觉却像进行了世上最好的交流。
事实是失去时才知曾经拥有,到来时才知曾经缺失也同样是真理。
迷恋一个人只需一分钟,喜欢一个人需要一小时,爱上一个人需要一天,忘记一个人却需要一生。不要贪慕外表,外表会骗人;不要追求健康,健康会消损。努力寻找一个能让你微笑的人,因为给黯淡的一天增加亮色的只有微笑。
梦你所梦,去你想去的地方,做你想做的人,因为你只有一次生命一个机会去做你想做的一切。
总是设身处地为他人着想。如果你觉得自己受了伤害,别人同样也会受到伤害。 一句漫不经心的话可能激起冲突,一句残忍的话可能毁掉人的一生,一句适时的话可能平复紧张心理,一句爱抚的话可能平复伤口带来祝福。
最幸福的人不一定拥有最好的一切,他们只是充分利用来到自己生活中的一切。
爱情从微笑开始,伴着吻成长,以眼泪而结束。出生时,你一个人在哭,周围人都在笑。过完一生,争取在死时,你一个人在笑,周围人都在哭。
附:原文 It hurts to love someone and not be loved in return. But what is more painful isto love someone and never find the courage to let that person know how you feel. Asad thing in life is when you meet someone who means a lot to you, only to findout in the end that it was never meant to be and you just have to let go. The best kind of friend is the kind you can sit on a porch swing with, never say aword, and then walk away feeling like it was the best conversation you've ever had. It's true that we don't know what we've got until we lose it, but it's also truethat we don't know what we've been missing until it arrives. It takes only a minute to get a crush on someone, an hour to like someone, and aday to love someone- but it takes a lifetime to forget someone. Don't go forlooks; they can deceive. Don't go for wealth, even that fades away. Go for someone who makes you smile because it takes only a smile to make a dark day seem bright. Dream what you want to dream; go where you want to go; be what you want to be,because you have only one life and one chance to do all the things you want todo. Alwaysput yourself in the other's shoes. If you feel that it hurts you, it probablyhurts the person too. A careless word may kindle strife; a cruel word may wreck a life; a timely word may level stress; a loving word may heal and bless. The happiest of people don't necessarily have the best of everything they just make the most of everything that comes along their
way. Love begins with a smile, grows with a kiss, ends with a tear. When you were born, you were crying and everyone around you was smiling. Live your life so that when you die, you're the one smiling and everyone around you is crying.
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