【赫临译笔】友谊和爱情

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友谊和爱情

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友谊和爱情的区别何在？二者如此关连，却又如此不同！我们试图了解：异性之间能否存在理想的友谊。

何为友谊？我们为什么呼一人为友？何时称一人为好友？如果我们关心一个人，总是乐于帮助他/她，多数心曲愿与之倾诉，那他/她就是我们的好友。紧急情况下，我们总能指望好友。我们的某种举止，好友肯定能理解。好友之间无须解释任何事情。我们的友谊如此之深，关系如此之铁，以致于多数事情都能自然而然地相互理解。

何为爱情？在深爱中，上面讨论过的一切，都被看作理所应当。但爱情远远超越这些。恋爱中，我们和一个特定的人粘在一起；而友谊中，一个人可以有许多朋友。恋爱关系使一个人如此依恋对方，以致于如果恋人受到伤害，自己会感到非常痛苦。爱情包括基本的身体接触，而友谊则不会这样。这是两者之间的重要区别。上苍赐予我们爱情，使种族得以繁衍。而友谊则不是上苍赐予的。

期待与友人相见时，你的心跳不会加速。思念友人时，你不会彻夜难眠。数日不见友人，你不会茫然不知所措。想到友人时，你不会神情恍惚。但在恋爱中，你不仅这样，还会变本加厉。实际上，爱情和友谊之间没有可比性。

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Both are so much related to each other. And both are so dissimilar! What are the differences between friendship and love? Is platonic friendship possible between persons of opposite sex? Let us try and understand.

What is friendship? Why do we call a person our friend? When do we call someone a very good friend? If we care for a person, if we are always ready to help that person and if we share most of our thoughts with a person, they are our good friends. We can always count upon our good friends in an emergency. We are always sure that our friend will understand why we acted in a certain way. We need not explain anything to our very good friends. The friendship is so deep and the relationship is so intimate, that most of the things are automatically understood by our friends.

What about love? In a relationship of deep love, all the sharing that we discussed above are taken for granted. But love transcends all this. During love, we are attached with a particular person, while in friendship, one may have many friends. A loving relationship makes one so much attached to the other, that one gets pained if his/her beloved is hurt! Love also involves a physical element.Friendship does not have that. This is a vital difference. Nature gives us love so that the specie can go forward. Nature does not give us friendship.

Your heart beats will never increase in anticipation of meeting your friend. You will not lie awake at night thinking about your friend. You will not feel totally lost, if you don't meet your friend for a few days. You will not have dreams in your eyes thinking about your friend. But in love, you will do all this and much more. Indeed, there is no comparison between love and friendship.