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不再相信的生活箴言
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1．幸福来自于外在的东西
我们把自己的幸福附着于诸如外貌，银行余额，职称，旅行计划，财产以及别人的评价这样一些外在的东西上，结果，我们就会很痛苦。
真正持续不断的幸福来自内心，是一种通过感恩，正念和接受来培养的心态。
2．成功只有一个定义
它包括事业有成，住宅宽敞，体态对得起观众，婚姻美满还要有年假。
每个人都有自己的生活方式，能够带来真正的意义和深深成就感的东西也各各不同。
你没有必要去适应现状。用契合你灵魂的方式去生活，工作，玩耍，约会，吃喝，走动，笑和唱，这才是真正的成功。
3．生活很艰难
生活很安逸，很美好，时时充满着幸福和快乐。
你越是倾听自己的灵魂，创建真正属于自己的生活，你的行为就会越来越自然流畅，毫不费力。
如果你生活在不断的奋斗中，你正奔波于虚无当中。你惧怕星期一，那么你就需要以爱的方式来老老实实审视一下你的生活。
４．生活难以预料。
你的现在是你过去多个选择的结果，你的将来则取决于你此刻正在做出的选择。
你是创造自己生活的积极参与者，因此，欣然接受自己的创造力，开始选择那些能产生积极影响的思想和言行，这将以数不清的方式来回报你，使你高尚，美丽，精彩绝伦。
５．有一样东西叫常规
我们应该权衡自己的能力，去打破常规。
世上没有常规的人，但却有个常规的你，在这种状态下，你完全是自己，深爱着自己，思维和行为方式与你的灵魂完全一致。
让你内心的罗盘成为你唯一的参考点。
６．生活中有我们和他们。
我们给自己的社交和家人画个圈子，把那些不符合我们定义为正常，有趣，有价值的人挡在圈外。
尽管每个人的天资，情感和嗜好千差万别，但内心的灵光却一模一样。你内心的灵光与的的，与公交车上陌生人的，以及你所认定的敌人内心的毫无二致。
７．我们不得不争夺有限的资源。
生活是丰富和无限的。我们相信资源有限而创造稀缺，而不是努力去创造和奉献，把我们的聪明才智用于帮助人类把潜力开发到极致。
放松心态，回归内心深处，你定能心想事成。
附：原文
Happiness comes from external things. We pin our happiness on external things like our appearance, bank balance, job title, travel plans, possessions and the opinions of others -- and then suffer as a result. True, sustainable happiness comes from within -- by cultivating a mindset based on gratitude, mindfulness and acceptance. There is a single definition of success. And it involves an established career, large house, acceptable body shape, marriage and annual holidays. Everyone has their own path to walk in this life, and what brings true meaning and deep fulfillment differs for all of us. Let go of your need to fit to the status quo. Live, work, date, play, create, travel, eat, drink, move, laugh and sing in ways that feel right with your soul. That is true success. Life is meant to be hard work. Life is meant to be easy, beautiful and overflowing with moments of joy and bliss. The more you listen to your soul and build a life that's true to you, the more your actions will feel completely natural and effortless. If life is a constant struggle, you're running on empty and you dread Mondays, it's time to take an honest look at your life -- in a loving way. Life happens to us. Where you are now is a result of the choices you made in the past. Where you will be in the future is a result of the choices you are making right now. You are an active participant in the creation of your life. So embrace your power as a creator, and start choosing thoughts, words and actions that make a positive impact and will come back to you in a million magnificent, beautiful, jaw-dropping ways. There is such a thing as normal, and we should measure ourselves against it. There is no such thing as a normal human, but there is such a thing as a "normal" you -- where you're completely yourself, you love yourself deeply and you think and act in ways that feel aligned with your soul. Let your internal compass be your only point of reference. There is an "us" and a "them". We draw a line around our social and family circles, keeping out everyone who doesn't fit neatly within our definition of normal, interesting or worthwhile. While everyone has vastly different aptitudes, passions and quirks, everyone also has the same light within them. The light within you is the same light within me, within the stranger on the bus, and within anyone you consider your enemy. We have to compete for limited resources. Life is meant to be abundant and limitless. We create scarcity by believing in it, instead of focusing our efforts on creating, giving and contributing our gift to help humankind reach its highest potential. Relax and feel it deep within your heart that you will always be provided for. | 
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