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利用好自己的错误 荷叶/译 错误和过失是人生进程中的必修课程。错误是位伟大的老师。成功只垂青那些在追求目标和理想之中,甘冒犯错误之险并能从中学到东西的人。要想从错误中学到东西,你必须乐意为此付出代价。 错误可能极有价值,但如果你试图让别人为你的错误买单,那你就剥夺了自己从中学习的机会。出了问题,找个替罪羊很容易,但那又有什么用呢? 错误的重要价值在于,它提出了一个必须偿付的代价。从错误中学到最多东西的人,是那个为此错误偿付代价的人。 当你犯下一个错误时,最不该做的就是逃避它。你需要承认错误,因为只有这样你才能从中学到最多。错误已经铸成,就要最大限度地利用它。付出代价,汲取教训,使自己变得更强大。 当你犯下一个错误时,不要念念不忘。记住犯错的原因,然后向前看。错误是获取智慧的教程。过去无法改变,现在尚在你掌控之中,充分利用自己犯下的错误,来实现你的目标和理想。 附:原文 Mistakes and errors are the discipline through which we advance in life. Mistakes are great teachers. Success comes to those who are willing to risk making mistakes in the pursuit of their goals and aspirations, and who are able to learn from those mistakes. And in order to learn from mistakes you must be willing to pay for them. Mistakes can be enormously valuable, but when you try to get others to payfor your mistakes, then you deprive yourself of the opportunity to learn from them. When something goes wrong, it's usually very easy to find someone else to blame, but what does that really accomplish? Much of the value of mistakes comes from the fact that they demand a cost that must be paid. The person who learns the most from a mistake is the person who pays the price for that mistake. When you make a mistake, the last thing you want to do is run away fromit. You need to accept it because you can learn a lot from it. The mistake has been made, so make the most of it. Pay the price, learn the lesson, and grow much stronger. When you make a mistake, don't look back at it long. Remember the reason for it, and then look forward. Mistakes are lessons of wisdom. The past cannot be changed. The present is still in your power. Take full advantage of your mistakes to achieve your goals and aspirations. |